Friendship v/s love

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There are moments when we need a guy friend who will just lend us a shoulder and not ask for any other further advancement. The difference lies in being a best friend or a boyfriend. When you are upset, stressed out and sad to the core, you probably do not need a kiss. At times a hug does wonders to you and you are left with nothing but the feel good. You have always been a close friend with a member of opposite gender in your life, and it has always been like that. The thing never bothered you and it has never been a problem. Suddenly you start to doubt yourself and getting sceptical about your feelings. You cannot help but ask yourself about the authenticity of love and friendship. May be you are sure about the thing that nothing is fishy between you two, but your friends will keep on pestering about the gossips and you will start to dig all the way more deeper into your heart.

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All of a sudden you feel jealous about your friend getting involved with someone else and the fact is way beyond your imagination. Of course if you are cent per cent happy about your friend’s significant other then you guys are just friends. If you cannot wait to meet the special person in your friend’s life, then you are definitely the best friend everybody is in search for. You always make efforts to keep your friend happy, be it by letting him talk to his girlfriend. You know you will never be a threat. If you have started to feel something about your friend, then you will never like his girlfriend/boyfriend. You will always find him cocky, ugly, annoying or as a matter of fact just plain for your friend. Is it true that your friend is seriously dating a bad girl or is it only you, you find yourself fit with him?

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When hanging out with best guy friends, you can actually see them without your make-up or when you are in the shaggiest clothes possible. You hardly feel conscious about your being and just are natural with them. The level of comfort which one gets in a guy friend is unmatchable. Of course when you find true love, then you will eventually fall into the comfort zone. But there are phases, especially the initial courtship phase, you are filled with nervousness and uncertainty. So a true guy friend never makes you uncomfortable. In fact, there is a lot less drama involved. With the girls, it is like a lot of bickering and gossiping. Moreover they are jealous

Moreover they are jealous about your achievements and will rarely help you ace through unless you are very good friends. Being a girl, I do not feel like making all these things sound obvious, but these are true. Speaking from personal experiences, I have had the best girlfriends and spent some unforgettable memories with them. But being with a guy friend is altogether a different feeling. You do not feel the pangs of jealousy and looking good and maintaining your dignity every time you are with them. You can stay cool about your looks; if you want you can even fart loudest in front of your friends or even blow your nose hard. These may sound gross; as writing surely does but believe me they are not when you are with your best guy friends.

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In friendship, one is caring about others but not to the extent of pissing each other off. Not that loving others and being overprotective can lead to frequent disputes. Do not complicate the things. Let the friendship blossom the way it has been since years. It is always advised not to stir the pot unless required. Until your friend comes up with an explanation for your relationship status, you need not bring it up. If you think there is a serious dating potential lying somewhere, then just go for it. If you think you can have a casual go with your friend, and then you never know, you will end up with the best guy on earth who has been your best friend always. If not, then you can go back to normal again. If your friend does not reciprocate the same feelings then act as if nothing has happened and go back to your friendship. Whatever be the consequences, think twice before falling in love with your best friend and think for more than twice before proposing. After all, he is the oldest friend we are talking about. Why so much of thinking is needed before any proposal is due to the fine line difference between love and infatuation. Love is when your needs are subsidiary to your better half’s. Infatuation is simply a chemical reaction occurring in the brain for quite some time. While friendship is an everlasting bond between two souls with some common interests. Enjoy your life for it will always be a cocktail of friendship and love.

Whatever be the consequences, think twice before falling in love with your best friend and think for more than twice before proposing. After all, he is the oldest friend we are talking about. Why so much of thinking is needed before any proposal is due to the fine line difference between love and infatuation. Love is when your needs are subsidiary to your better half’s. Infatuation is simply a chemical reaction occurring in the brain for quite some time. While friendship is an everlasting bond between two souls with some common interests. Enjoy your life for it will always be a cocktail of friendship and love.

If not, then you can go back to normal again. If your friend does not reciprocate the same feelings then act as if nothing has happened and go back to your friendship.

Whatever be the consequences, think twice before falling in love with your best friend and think for more than twice before proposing. After all, he is the oldest friend we are talking about. Why so much of thinking is needed before any proposal is due to the fine line difference between love and infatuation. Love is when your needs are subsidiary to your better half’s. Infatuation is simply a chemical reaction occurring in the brain for quite some time. While friendship is an everlasting bond between two souls with some common interests. Enjoy your life for it will always be a cocktail of friendship and love.

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