Relationships are one of the most amazing things in this little world of ours. Dating, one of the perks we encounter in the way. But it is an oxymoron in itself, as relationships are as troublesome as one can be. Some of the relationships, however you term them to be – they just come out as plain toxic.
The chances are that you’re summed up in a relationship where your better half turns out to be a toxic waste of certain kind. And if that is not the case, it leads to two conclusions; both possible in their own set of protocols. One that you’re in a perfect relationship that is out of any kind of irrelevant proximities. Thumbs up, if you’re one of them. Otherwise, it is time to turn the tables up as you’re the one who’s polluting the relationship at the moment’s time.
So, if you’re feeling rather uncomfortable in the set of assumptions that we made upper hand, there’s nothing much we can do about it. But if you think that you’re trapped in a similar kind of a relationship that is turning out to be toxic with ongoing time, we will highly suggest you to hold on, and take some time to read further.
Here we provide some of the relationship partners that suck the happiness out of a relationship and lead to a mixture of pure venom. And if that turns out to be the case for you, you might want to start looking for an exit door out of your relationship.
Is your partner wants everything to be as he/she desires? Are you already latching into their comfort zone, and slowly coming out of yours? Or it is that your spouse wants to keep track of everything you’re doing or about to do and is pretty hyper-aggressive about it?
Well the news you would be interested is that you’re in a relationship with a control freak. And with this kind of relationship where everything you’re set to do has to pass their perusal, then it is better to snap out of it.
No, we’re not being tech-savvy here. Rather we’re talking about the partner who is too much inclined on the pessimist side. Does your spouse think that everything he/she has is just a result of his negative fate? Or the only thoughts he/she has always have a promising touch of negativity in them? To be true, this kind of partners is right out of your scary nightmares.
These will never achieve stability in life, nor would they wish to achieve anything greater than they already have. And with themselves, they will drag down your dreams and aspirations. And the effects such people have on your decisions might have a very dramatic outcome. So, think before you go on with such a partner.
Everybody lies, there’s no denying fact in that. And even surveys tell that, the best relationships are based on lies. But there’s always a limit one shouldn’t cross. For some, lying jumps out of being a random excuse to a lousy habit. And furthermore, some people can’t help but lie at all moments.
Although, you would try hard to confront them and make them feel sorry for it; there is no way they can excuse these habit. And in the end you will be one feeling paranoid about everything. We assure you that these frustrations and insecurities are no worth if your spouse just another lousy lying bastard. So chill your sense, and walk out.
The partner with capital ‘J’
For those, who are not yet familiar with what we’re talking about. The J stands for the jealous factor and the partner we mentioned stands for loser. Well, that is a mean thing to say about someone, but that is how these work. Is your better half is overly cautious with whom you’re spending time with and becomes a burnt beef when it turns out to be of similar gender as his. Well, we think you’ve found your loser and it’s time to get rid of him/her. A little touch of jealousy is important in a relationship and some people also term it to be cute but when it starts affecting you and your timeline, then it’s a definite no.
We all are familiar with such kind of persons. And when it comes to relationships, we often tend to overlook. But look closely, is your boyfriend/girlfriend is too materialistic? If the answer is positive, there are chances that you often are treated as an accessory even if they like you. And it is also quite possible that the core point of your fights revolve around the sheer idea of perfectionism. The thoughts you might be holding in are of no use for them, unless it makes them stand off the crowd. Well, these qualities are too shallow to be taken account for your partner, so unless you want to be treated like a property, you have every reason to be off with the relationship.